Although I have held many
teaching sessions, I am always nervous when I go for the first session in the
course. [I am going to begin a new course tomorrow.] And I do not know why it
Nah, that is not true. I know why
My very first lecture session
after taking up a job with Asian Paints, was with Metal Box, a company many
would not remember and others may not even know. Suffice it to say that it was
a respected company in the early seventies when we read for our post-graduation
in industrial relations; it is unfortunate that it has disappeared from
industrial scene. An officer of the Central Board of Workers’ Education asked
me to address the workers’ education class at Metal Box.
I must have prepared for several
days in advance, nervous at the facing unknown people, not knowing their
requirements. The effort was well received. But I wondered whether it was ‘good enough!’
Another memorable day was in
1999. I was asked by TISS address HR students. Although I had addressed the
students of earlier batches, this event remains etched in my memory for a
special reason. I did not know what to talk about, the topic was very general.
It was perhaps kept deliberately vague so that I can have freedom to talk on a topic
of my choice. I kept thinking about the impending lecture for several days,
nothing really was working out to my satisfaction. I distinctly remember that I
was about to leave for TISS at about 12 noon, and I got down to prepare my talk
at 11 am! In just 30 minutes I prepared my session. This session was
exceptionally well received by students. I spoke about how to negotiate a
Why did I wait till 11am?
Actually I was preparing for a long time, but nothing was ‘clicking’ in my
opinion. By this time I had bitten all the ten nails [as my wife says]. Working
under tremendous time pressure, I suddenly ‘discovered’ [perhaps thoughts must
have got crystallised in my mind] an approach by which I could reach out to all
students easily. I knew this would ‘click.’
Many years later, with just a few
years to go for retirement, a colleague and I discussed various ideas of
organising an HR Meet. Many ideas were put on table, discussed and discarded,
and as I said earlier nothing was clicking. We sat still; nothing seemed to meet
our own approval. Then came a moment, we were under pressure and both of us
instantly [and instinctively] agreed on a new format which we thought of then. Recently
while reading ‘Presence’ I discovered that the Theory U talks of similar
experiences. Chinese painters keep observing a landscape for hours, and then
they get up and swiftly draw a picture.
These experiences are memorable
in retrospect, but when you are working under pressure, there is a lot of
tension. I think we put ourselves under too much pressure to succeed. We want to
be like Yuvaraj Singh who hit six sixes, a sixer on every ball in the over. We
want to be like a leopard that chases and kills its prey. Why can’t we think of
ourselves as bowlers who bowl a few good balls and then entice a batsman to hit
a bad shot? Why can’t we be like a spider that waits for an insect to get
trapped in its net?
I think a leopard, Yuvaraj or a
batsman are seen as far more impactful than a Kumble or Shane Warne or a spider
who work to a plan. Brute force gives a strong feeling of a ‘kill,’ it arouses
enormous emotions of conquest. ‘Weaving’ success is another story; it is working
to a plan, and is the work of intelligence.
I must examine my ideas of
success associated with teaching. Till then I will be biting my nails and worrying
about the first session on the class.
Let us hope it will be good